What I Define Love As

, I have many principles many considered as weird. I'd love to share one with us. 

I follow the community principle. I believe that "happiness is not full until  it placed a positive effect on your neighbors". Personally, my happiness and satisfaction comes when I'm happy and you're happy. I can't be happy and you're not happy. There should be parallelism. 

If you meet Della in a restaurant or an eatery whichever way, she'd never call you and say "come and eat". She expects that  you just wash your hand or pick up a spoon to join her (my roommates know. Lol). 

As for her, she won't say thank you instead of joining you when she's hungry when you say "come and eat". She'd join you. There is an exception. If I know you I might not wait for you to even say "come and eat". 

I just believe that if I take a wrap of semovita with my friend. I might be complaining before then that it's too small for me, once you join me, you're happy and that makes me happy. 

Most times only few of my friends know this about me and so when I buy boiled groundnut inside nylon and up to five people take and pour and then eat, my other not too close friends be like "Deola, your groundnut will soon finish oo", I just smile. 
To many this is weird. To some sef it's stupid. 
That's just the way I love to love.

Abayomi Adeola Della

Abayomi Adeola Della is a Life & Business Coach. She engages Content Development to bring ideas to life.

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